I was having a discussion about the current state of male commentary; the consensus being lack of self reflection. That being said how does the process of reflection start when you’ve been conditioned to diminish and degrade yourself and your own? Some people naturally take steps that will cause them to grow inherently. Others are put in a sink or swim positions with varying outcomes, best case you grow and/or seek out guidance. But why isn’t that guidance readily available in the first place? We are brought up expecting that a man is a protector, provider, stable and disciplined. These…